I wrote a book

Three years of my life, two gorgeous dogs and a bucket of tears. That’s what it took me to get from an idea of writing a book to publishing Perfect cocker spaniel.

As surreal as it sounds, I wrote a book. An actual book!

Why? Because it was my way to keep the memory of Oscar alive. Because I love books. And dogs. And simply because I wanted to share everything I knew about English cocker spaniels with both the new puppy parents and absolutely everyone who simply adores the breed as much as I do (and I can talk about cockers 24/7, so it’s practically a disease!)

What is it about? Everything. I’ve complied a massive Theory to encourage cocker parents to understand their dogs and give them the most appropriate care (and all the love they deserve). There’s a chapter about health, and another one – on first aid. There are chapters on grooming and hand-stripping because I get asked so many questions about my boys’ beauty routine. And of course, there’s another huge chapter on dog’s nutrition and diet.

Once you (fuelled by caffeine and inappropriate thoughts of killing me on the spot for torturing your brain) get through the first part, you are rewarded with an easy-to-follow guide for puppy parents. It’s like diving into the world of unicorns and sparkles. Plus a dash of reality. But I promise, you will enjoy it!

The reason I went so deep with writing a guide that, in its physical form, would weight a ton, is my own experience of attending a year-long study course before I had my first puppy. By the time he was born I could discuss anything from dog’s anatomy and physiology, breeds, nutrition and training to breeding and raising puppies. I could cook meals for my dogs and knew how to show them.

In other words, I knew exactly what I was getting myself into, so the feeling of responsibility was palpable.

A lot has changed since then but the way I perceive my role of puppy’s mum remains the same. I truly believe that anyone must have a solid knowledge of finding, welcoming and raising a dog. And this core knowledge must be obtained before the puppy is here because puppy parenthood is not an easy ride and the puppy – is not a toy, it’s an actual living and breathing little being who completely relies on his parents to live, thrive and grow into a beautiful and healthy dog!

I wrote this book for Oscar. I wrote it for the love of my beautiful boys. I wrote it for every English cocker spaniel out there because they are simply the best dogs one could have!

If you agree with me, Perfect Cocker Spaniel is the book for you. Do let me know what you think of it. But, please, be gentle.

Photo source: the cover is designed by me, the portrait of Cooper is by Sandra Chiocchetti

Cooper, cooper.spaniel, sable cocker spaniel for perfectcockerspaniel.com dog photography, cocker spaniel advice

My perfect cocker spaniel

Last week Coop and I went out to take photos. It was a step out of the comfort zone for both of us and admittedly, I felt a little nervous.

I was worried that Coop would be anxious. I was concerned about leaving Fred home alone. I was not sure how comfortable I’d be prancing around with a camera in a manner of David Bailey…

Well, it went splendidly well.

I took them both out for a walk first. Upon return Fred received a few treats while Coop and I got ready to pop out. At first Coop could not even believe the fact that it was just two of us. For a moment there he looked lost and confused and then, suddenly, a huge grin appeared on my baby’s face! I almost wept. I missed “just us” so much!

And off we went. Coop – strolling next to me, no pulling, no stress – just pure joy. Me – looking for pretty spots to take photos.

Eventually we stopped, got the camera out, I asked Coop to wait and got clicking.

Coop was a perfect model. He stayed, got back to pose this and that way, completely ignored people who stopped by to watch him. I was so proud!

After about 20 minuted we headed back home because I was still worried that Fred would be stressed out.

To my relief (and slight disappointment!) the little one walked out to greet us in the calmest manner imaginable! Sort of  “Ah, that’s you two! Alright then…” Coop went off for a drink and I took my time to give Fred lots of cuddles. In return, Fred looked up, walked straight into the garden and waited there for me to go and photograph him, too! It was hilarious!

As soon as the photos we taken he walked back and headed off to the kitchen for a treat. Coop joined him, of course.

Somehow everything felt into place in such a harmonious way that all my silly and not so silly worries simply varnished. I am now looking forward to more trips like this. Me and my boy, my perfect cocker spaniel.

I know Fred will join us eventually. And I am looking forward to those extra special moments, too.

Cooper, 3 months old red gold sable english cocker spaniel puppy, good reasons to have a puppy / first published on perfect cocker spaniel blog / story and photo (c) Natalia Ashton

5 good reasons to have a puppy

Why did you decide to have a puppy?

Last night I was lying in bed – Netflix on, boys piled up next to me, dreaming of something… possibly their favourite walk and biscuits… who knows… It was a moment of pure bliss. A kind of moment that makes every effort that goes into raising a pup totally worthwhile.

It got me thinking… Why do we decide to have a puppy in the first place? What are the best things about having a dog – and cocker, in particular?

Here are my personal top 5:

1. Puppies make us happy. Cuddling them triggers release of oxytocin – the “love hormone”. Newborn babies have the same effect on their mums to create a bond between them.

2. Puppies make us active and fit. Running after a little cocker is way harder than having a workout in the gym. Plus, you use your entire body (and feel like a corpse by 9pm…)

3. Puppies are the best weight watchers! Remember that cup of coffee you made in the morning? You were hoping to drink it before the pup is awake… Well, it’s lunch time now – and that coffee is still there waiting for you. Food? Don’t even think about it! Pointless!

4. Puppies make us feel young again. You cannot build a real bond with a pup unless you let yourself be YOURSELF! Run, play, roll in a grass together, laugh, cuddle, act like a kid!

5. Puppies improve our social life & skills. Just think how many people you suddenly get to chat with during your walks! The only problem is most of them will never recognise you without your dog or remember your name (you are destined to be known as “[insert your dog’s name here] mum/dad”

WHAT DO YOU THINK? WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO HAVE A PUP?

Photo source: Cooper photographed by me